wait wait. happiness is a blessing. misery and pain are blessing in disguise. we should always be grateful. no matter what. and anybody can say anything like they knew better. but the truth is, they don't. they can judge. oh yes, they can. let them be. who cares anyway. life isn't always sunshine and rainbow. people make mistakes. people learn. people change. people grew up. i always remind myself, not to judge others like i don't want to be judge. it's simple. don't do things that u don't want other people do to u. be better. be kind. stop being selfish. if people make mistake, guide them. help them to change. live in a world full of kindness. kan ke semua tu akan ditanya di akhirat? the secret to receive is give give give. give without expecting anything in return. give with no hidden agenda or intention. give sincerely. then, u will see the difference. trust me, i've tried. don't be afraid to change. don't wait to be better. life won't bite. it just one roller coaster ride.